Serving Habits of Spiritually Healthy Pastors

This article was first published before the COVID-19 pandemic affected the US. Pastors, if you are reading this and serving your congregation faithfully in these unique times, then let me commend you! I think our service to the church in the coming days/weeks must be more prayerful and focus on communication. Church members, if you are reading this, know that your pastor is under a unique set of pressures as he tries to serve you and the church through this. Pray for him. Pray for your church. Find ways to serve. If you are able continue giving to your church during this time. One of the challenges he will face in these days is the pressure of finances. It is unavoidable.

At first glance, you might think this is a no-brainer article for pastors and church leaders. Of course, pastors serve. Isn’t that our job?

But there’s a difference between the outward actions of serving and the inward spirit of a servant. Christ desires not only that we serve His church, but that we have His mind and put others first.

In previous articles, I addressed the worship habits and learning habits of spiritually healthy pastors. These traits, coupled with a habit of serving others, allows us to embrace the mission of Christ to become His followers in action and attitude.


Most of us who have a ministry career get the concept of service. The word minister means “to serve.” Our gifts, abilities, calling, and responsibilities are service-oriented. 

To preach is to serve the church in teaching and prayer ministry (Acts 6:4). The habit I’m suggesting here, however, isn’t always outwardly visible. 

As pastors, we should have a motivation to serve that goes beyond being noticed by others. Visiting a sick church member, caring for a family during a funeral, or preaching each week are visible ministries.

Serving with our talents and gifts are vital, but what about when no one sees us? Do we serve with our time in these moments? Do we have the character of a servant? 

For example, if you’re married and have kids, do you serve your family by helping out around the house, guiding your children in their chores, and taking the lead when discipline is required?

Do you serve others in your community and church when no one else sees? To have the mind of Christ is to put others first and serve regularly. 

Compare your heart and serving habits to Mark 10:45 and Philippians 2:4-8. We’re called to not just look like servants, but to be servants. 


Difficult deacons, selfish church members, and churches that run off pastors all have a bad reputation.

But unfortunately, as often as I hear about another church that’s run off a pastor, I hear about a pastor who’s left a church in shambles. 

Without the character of a servant, the patience of a shepherd, and the wisdom of Christ, it can become easy for pastors to conclude they’re the ones in charge. Not true. 

Christ alone is Lord of His church. The pastor is to shepherd, oversee, feed, and guide the church, but not rule the church.

Pastors who appear to serve out of ego affirmation aren’t protecting the unity of the church. Pastors who rule like dictators aren’t protecting the unity of the church. Pastors who unwisely stir up unnecessary conflict aren’t protecting the unity of the church.

If you have the role to lead a church, you need the character to match it—a heart that serves and a desire to help the church grow in spiritual health and unity. 


If churches must get outside their walls to minister to the community, so should pastors.

Most pastors and church leaders have enough going on inside the church to keep them busy for weeks if not much longer. Our congregations wouldn’t be disappointed to have our time, attention, and effort focused on them.

Of course, ministry to our church through preaching, shepherding, and leading is of primary importance. But if we expect our congregation to serve faithfully in the community and the world through mission and organizational partnerships, then we must lead by example. 

Find a local mission organization where you can serve regularly (maybe with your small group or another group in the church), as well as a national or international mission partner with whom you can participate in mission service outside your local context.

Serving outside your church opens the door for evangelism, models service to your church, and reflects the example of Christ.

Originally published here at LifeWay Facts and Trends.

Photo by Jeremy Yap on Unsplash

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