spiritual formation

In last week’s post, I shared a thank you to Wilkesboro Baptist Church for the opportunity to take a sabbatical. One of my primary activities during the several weeks away from the regular rhythms of work was reading. As followers of Jesus, we are always to be learning. One of my favorite passages comes from 2 Timothy 4:13 where Paul requests that Timothy bring books and parchments when he visits. Even while in prison during the final stages of his life, Paul was learning. I commend reading to you as a means of spiritual growth.

Reading is one of my hobbies and joys. Over the past several years, I’ve developed the practice of tracking my reading annually. Tracking anything functions as an accountability, and it lets me look back for review and reflection.

For me, books on theology, apologetics, ministry, and leadership get my mind going. I try not to read these at bedtime or I’m likely not to sleep. During the sabbatical I finished several books that I had started and read several other books that made an impression on me. You can find more suggested reading on my reading page. In this post, I’ll share some short reviews of several of the books I recently completed. Look for additional reviews in the weeks ahead.

What is Wrong with the World? by Tim Keller

I’ve been a fan of Tim Keller’s preaching and writing for a long time. His books on Preaching and Prayer have been helpful for my spiritual development. What is Wrong with the World? was compiled by Kathy Keller, after Tim’s death. It comes from sermons Keller preached on the doctrine of sin. This book expands the basic view of sin as breaking God’s law to the various ways that sin permeates and damages us.

Here’s a great quote from the book that I used this week in my sermon: “The real reason you keep having problems with these enslaving habits is because you don’t have an appetite for something better. I’m not talking about believing in God. I’m not talking even about obeying God. I’m talking about tasting God… The way to get out from under the enslaving habits—the secret to freedom from spiritual slavery—is to worship. You need deep, heartfelt worship. Worship that moves you to tears. Worship that fills you with joy. You have to sense the overwhelming greatness of who God is and what he has done for you.” (169-170).

The Pastor Theologian: Resurrecting an Ancient Vision by Gerald Heistand and Todd Wilson

I’ve had this book on my shelf for a while and just got around to reading it. Heistand and Wilson are pastors with a heart for doctrinal thinking and pastoral depth in writing. They argue that pastors should be theologians. For them, the pastor should make time for deep reading in theology and even for writing theologically. I was convicted by this book and inspired to finish one writing project and begin work on another.

Deep Work: Rules for Focused Success in a Distracted World by Cal Newport

Several years ago, I read Digital Minimalism by Cal Newport and was not disappointed by Deep Work. Our ability to concentrate intentionally has been drastically affected by the technologies that were supposed to make our lives simpler and easier. While our smartphones can simplify tasks and make communication easier, they can also suck attention and lead to wasted time. Newport suggests methods of scheduling and planning where distractions are removed and intentional work is done. His recommendations partially shaped how I organized my time for thinking, reading, and writing over the past several weeks.

The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer

Having read a couple of Comer’s books now, I believe his works serve as a helpful correction to some contemporary struggles in our walk with God. I’m grateful that as a writer, Comer doesn’t simply observe/describe problems, but he offers solutions. However, some of his solutions are not as helpful as I think they could be. (More on that in the highlight that follows: A Heart Aflame for God). Here are some quotes from The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry:

  • Dallas Willard, “There is nothing else. Hurry is the great enemy of spiritual life in our day. You must ruthlessly eliminate hurry from your life.” (19)
  • Corey ten Boom, “If the devil can’t make you sin, he’ll make you busy.” (20) 
  • Carl Jung, “Hurry is not of the devil; hurry is the devil.” (20) 
  • John Mark Comer, “Love is painfully time consuming…. Hurry and love are incompatible.” (23)
  • Non-Christian Mary Oliver, “Attention is the beginning of devotion.” (53) 
  • Walter Brueggemann, “People who keep sabbath live all seven days differently.” (150)
  • Wall street banker: “We must shift America from a needs to a desires culture… People must be trained to desire, to want new things, even before the old have been completely consumed. We must shape a new mentality. Man’s desires must overshadow his needs.” (182) 

Comer offers quotes, insights, and statistics that are meaningful. I find his insights on Sabbath and rest a helpful reminder for over busy people. In fact, I interacted with two other books on this sabbatical that directly addressed Sabbath: The Rest of God by Mark Buchanan and Subversive Sabbath by A. J. Swoboda. I would generally commend all three books to you with the following caveat. Attempts today to modernize a Sabbath practice can easily fall into traps of legalism which Swaboda and Buchanan both admit. Further, the language of Sabbath is confusing. Observing Sabbath is the Old Testament command found in the 10 Commandments in Exodus 20:8-11 and repeated in Deuteronomy 5:12-15. God modeled rest in Genesis 1 after six days of creation, and God commanded Sabbath to his people in the Old Testament. The Sabbath was one of the ways (along with circumcision and the Law) that made his people distinct from the idolatrous world around them. By Jesus’ day, Pharisees and others had added a great number of Sabbath day laws to make sure that one kept the Sabbath. Jesus corrected the Pharisees’ legalism and challenged their assumptions by healing on the Sabbath day and by his statement in Mark 2:27-28 : “And he said to them, “The Sabbath was made for man, not man for the Sabbath. So the Son of Man is Lord even of the Sabbath.”

I think contemporary expressions of setting aside a day of rest and worship are important, and I’m generally thankful for Comer, Buchanan, and Swodoba. However to call the day we set aside to rest and worship a Sabbath day is to confuse Christian living with Jewish Law. Even if we practice rest and worship on Sundays, we are not practicing Sabbath. New Testament believers quickly adopted the first day of the week, Sunday, as the Lord’s day in remembrance of the resurrection. Another reminder about Sabbath practice for contemporary believers is that is is not reissued as a New Testament command. Remember, it was a day that the nation of Israel was to set apart for God. But many new believers in the early church were slaves or those who had no control over their weekly calendars so a Jewish Sabbath would have been largely impossible for them to keep. Even throughout history, Sabbath practitioners have had to make exceptions for those in war, working in hospitals, or emergency responders. Our own national history reflects that within the past generation, the general tendency of society to set aside a day (Sunday) as different has been largely ignored. Liquor laws that prevented the sell of alcohol on Sunday were a remnant of New Testament application of the Sabbath principle.

The principle of rest and worship is what I believe Christians should take away from the reminders in the books above. When we set aside a day for rest and worship and create a regular rhythm of giving one day a week devoted to God through Christ, we are embracing the intention of the Sabbath day. We do need rest, and we must worship. Ultimately, Jesus is our Sabbath (Hebrews 3-4). He fulfilled the Sabbath when he fulfilled the Law (Matthew 5:17), Jesus must be the focus of our day of rest and worship. Thus, gathering on Sundays for worship is the beginning of continuing a biblical pattern of rest, worship, and reset.

Naturally, we will have questions about setting apart a day for rest and worship. What should we do? What must we not do? Etc. Mark Buchanan offered great advice to those questions in his book The Rest of God when he said, “We should do what gives life on our day of rest/worship.”

A Heart Aflame for God: A Reformed Approach to Spiritual Formation by Matthew Bingham

Bingham offers an excellent response to spiritual formation from a Reformed perspective. Much writing on spiritual formation has found practices and ideas from a variety of doctrinal traditions. While evangelicals can certainly learn from formational practices from alternative denominational influences, we ought to be attentive to where those influences derive.

I appreciated A Heart Aflame for God as a Reformed explanation for spiritual formation. Bingham argues that spiritual formation should be Word-centered: including Bible reading and Scripture meditation as the foundation for Christian prayer. Spiritual practices, disciplines, and formational elements can be more than that, but Bingham’s focus is on biblical simplicity. Following are some quotes from the book that delineate Bingham’s arguments.

  • Archibald Alexander, “Those Christians, therefore, who are most diligent in attending upon the Word in public and private will be most likely to make progress in piety.” (72)
  • B.B. Warfield, “Life close to the Word of God is life close to God.” (72) 
  • Bingham, “Reformed spirituality is word-centered spirituality.” (75) 
  • John Flavel, “Keep the Word and the Word will keep you. It is the slipperiness of our hearts in reference to the Word that causes so many slips in our lives… We never lose our hearts till they have first lost the efficacious and powerful impressions of the Word.” (91)
  • Charles Hodge, “We cannot make progress in holiness unless we devote much time to the reading, and hearing, and meditating upon the word of God, which is the truth by which we are sanctified.” (109)
  • Thomas Watson, “Meditation is ‘serious thinking upon God.'” (135)
  • In reference to meditation and slowing down Bingham writes, “Life is getting faster. And while some might be inclined to dismiss this accelerating pace as neutral or even beneficial, there are good reasons to suspect that our habitual exposure to this hyper-paced world has serious consequences for our capacity to slow down and pay attention to things that really matter.” (145). This is why we need meditation on the Word.

In short, Bingham provides a helpful strategy of Bible, meditation, and prayer as the primary means of spiritual formation. I would commend Bingham’s book and Comer’s book together as a beneficial counterbalance.

In the weeks to come, I hope to post additional reviews of some other books. For those interested and willing, reading is a most excellent way to grow and to be challenged. Some of what we read ought to challenge our currently held notions. Some of what we read ought to reinforce our doctrines and convictions. If you are a reader, consider some of the books above as reading options for the coming year. Or look through the reading list here on my website. If you are not a reader, may I encourage you to start. Begin with God’s Word. Read it every day. After that, pick one book and finish it. You’ll be amazed at how reading can impact your thinking and even your spiritual life. It is also a way to combat the relentless pace of media, advertisements, and the distractions of today’s technological environment.

Let’s read to the glory of God.

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At our worship service on Sunday March 6, we baptized 5. When I baptize, I ask two questions of the new believers. One, “Do you believe Jesus Christ is the Son of God and Savior of sinners?” Two, “Will you, with our help follow Jesus as Lord for the rest of your life?”

The second question focuses on the reality that trusting in Jesus is a commitment to following Jesus as Lord. It is for this reason that our mission at Wilkesboro Baptist is to lead our neighbors and the nations to follow Jesus. We definitely want people, young and old, to trust in Jesus as Savior. But our mandated mission from Jesus is to “make disciples;” to follow Jesus as Lord.

And Jesus came and said to them, “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you. And behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.”

Matthew 28:18-20

In light of our mission and our baptism question about following Jesus, there is a real tension in the life of many churches. What about children, teenagers, and adults who professed faith in Jesus, but no longer exhibit any spiritual fruit as a Christ-follower?

There is hardly a week that goes by that I don’t talk to a church member whose adult child or adult grandchild has strayed from the faith. I could relate to you story after story from burdened parents and grandparents for the souls and spiritual condition of their children and grandchildren. Some of you reading this are those parents and grandparents.

In an article a couple of weeks ago, I addressed the reality that Jesus invites children to follow him. The tension I’ve been wrestling with is how to make sense of children/grandchildren who fall away from or reject the faith. Based on my conversations with parents and grandparents, here are some reasons why children who grew up in church fall away from the faith. These reasons are not intended to be exhaustive, but rather representative.

  • Some fall away from the faith intellectually. Culture, worldview, media, education (public and higher) promote values and beliefs that are in contradiction to a biblical worldview. When our children and grandchildren are not grounded in the gospel and biblical doctrine, it becomes all too easy for skeptical philosophical ideas and arguments to damage a once vibrant faith. Many I’ve talked to over the years are in this category.
  • Some fall away from the faith morally. Sometimes people stop going to church and fall from the faith because of sinful behavior. A mentor once told me, “When someone distances themselves from church and family, it can often mean that he or she has unconfessed sin.” It is difficult to consistently be around God’s people and the proclaimed gospel when living in rebellion and sin.
  • Some fall away from the faith gradually. Many churches have seen a gradual departure from parishioners during COVID. If a person misses one week, it is easier to miss a second week. If a family misses church for a month, then it becomes easier not to attend the next month. This happens in one’s personal life as well. Neglecting spiritual disciplines and a relationship with Christ eventually causes a fall from the faith.

As a pastor watching these reasons play out in people’s lives, it really doesn’t appear like Satan cares one way or another how he draws people away from Christ. He’ll use intellectual doubts, moral failures, and gradual departures to damage one’s Christian faith.

Let me offer a few suggestions for how we make sense of those who have fallen away from faith and how to help restore them to Christ.

  1. Remember, a faith that is real is a faith that will persevere. I was talking to a church member several weeks ago about his assurance of salvation. He shared about a time as a young adult where he strayed from Christ, church, and faith. Yet he returned. It would do us all well to remember that if someone has a genuine faith in Christ, then Christ will not let that person go easily.
  2. Falling away from faith can be a reflection of a spiritual experience that was not genuine or saving. Some people fall away because what they experienced was not truly salvation. Bible Belt culture is rampant with examples. Walking an aisle, taking a preacher by the hand, or praying a prayer can be responses that coincide with genuine faith, but by themselves, they do not equate with salvation. There are some among us and some who have fallen away who were never really genuinely converted. This means we must be clear with the gospel that we preach and burdened for those who have fallen away.
  3. Pray for those who have fallen away. Jesus is the Good Shepherd who seeks to save the lost. He left the 99 to find the 1. Jesus cares more deeply about those who have fallen away than we could imagine. He died for them. Whether they need repentance in returning to their faith or a genuine work of salvation, Jesus cares for their souls. We should bring our burden for those who have fallen away to the Lord in regular prayer. Have others join you in prayer for them.
  4. Be a sounding board for questions and doubts. This suggestion is important for those who have developed intellectual uncertainties about Christianity. For 2,000 years Christianity has been persecuted, alienated, marginalized, questioned, and attacked. Christianity is stronger today for all of the attacks it has faced. For those who have legitimate questions about the veracity of Christianity, listen, learn, and discover the answers that will help build their faith back doctrinal brick by doctrinal brick. As a professor of theology, history, and apologetics and pastor for more than 20 years, I’m more confident than ever about the philosophical and theological soundness of Christianity. Legitimate questions and doubts can be answered with patient and intellectually rigorous apologetic and theological resources. For example see Tim Keller’s Reason for God or C.S. Lewis’ Mere Christianity or Nancy Pearcey’s Total Truth.
  5. Don’t preach at your loved ones. It is difficult for adult children and grandchildren to listen to their parents and grandparents, especially those who harp and nag. Those that have drifted away or fallen away do need preaching, but it may be that the preaching they need should not come from you. Invest in your children/grandchildren relationally even if they’ve drifted away from the faith. Pray for them. Encourage them. Keep the relational conversation channels open. There may come a day when the relational influence you maintain results in God using you to bring them back to faith.
  6. Deepen your own faith and help those under your influence to deepen their own faith. This might be the most meaningful suggestion in the list. You are never too old or too young to deepen your faith and understanding of Christian doctrine. Growing in doctrine and devotion serves as a framework for spiritual formation. The Christian who is growing to know God more deeply is the Christian who is increasingly less likely to fall away from faith.

At Wilkesboro Baptist Church, we’ve returned to a Wednesday night doctrinal study with the aim at helping us deepen our faith. Each Wednesday at 6:00 PM, we meet in our sanctuary for Doctrine and Devotion: Theological Reflections for Spiritual Formation. We are currently studying the doctrine of revelation (God speaking). If you are unable to join us in person, we’re recording the audio and sharing on our church podcast channel. You can listen here online. Or you can download our podcasts on your favorite podcast network.

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